How it starts

We just met for the first time. You wouldn't go in depth with a stranger. So my first few sessions are always about getting to know you: who you are, what's going on, what's underneath that.

Most people come in with something specific. Usually there's something underneath it. The work is figuring out which is which, and then figuring out what to do with that.

What you bring to the first session is up to you. If you're not sure where to start, that's a completely normal place to start from.

  • First sessions are about getting to know you, not going deep with a stranger.
  • Most people arrive with something specific. Usually there's something underneath it. The work is figuring out which is which.
  • No pressure to have it figured out before you arrive. Not knowing where to start is fine. Most people don't.

What to expect

Sessions are 50 minutes, online via Jane App. Frequency varies: some people come weekly, some bi-weekly, some monthly. We work that out based on what you're dealing with.

Some clients are touch-and-go. Many work consistently over 3–6 months. Some continue longer. There's no script for how long it should take.

Available across Ontario.

What we work on

Areas of focus

These aren't rigid categories, they're starting points. A lot of what people bring crosses several of these at once, and that's fine.

Emotional & Mood Regulation

Anxiety tends to start in a functional place: worry as preparation, caution as protection. But it runs into a problem: it only ever imagines bad outcomes. Even when those outcomes aren't likely, anxiety doesn't care. It's always living a few steps into a future that hasn't happened yet.

Depression often works differently. A lot of people silenced a part of themselves at some point in order to survive something, and for some people depression is what happens when that silencing also starts numbing the things worth feeling. The work isn't just lifting the weight. It's figuring out what's underneath it.

  • Anxiety only ever imagines bad outcomes. It lives in a future that hasn't happened yet.
  • Depression isn't just weight. It's figuring out what's underneath it: what got silenced, and why.
Anxiety Depression Anger management Emotional reactivity

Trauma & Life Transitions

Life transitions hit people differently. What one person finds exciting, another finds destabilising, and neither response is wrong. Developmental milestones, relational shifts, immigration, career changes, loss: these are the moments when the old version of you doesn't quite fit anymore and the new one hasn't arrived yet.

For immigration specifically, the question isn't just practical. It's existential: Who do you have to become in order to belong here? And what part of you has to remain in order to still be you?

  • Life transitions can be destabilising. The old version of you doesn't fit, the new one hasn't arrived.
  • Immigration raises an existential question: who do you have to become to belong here, and what part of you has to remain to still be you?
Immigration & adjustment Grief and loss Major life changes Trauma processing

Identity & Personal Growth

Who are you when nobody's watching, and does that match who you are when they are? Questions about identity often sit quietly for years before they become loud. When they do, it helps to have somewhere to take them.

One question I come back to with people: in an ideal world where no one observes you and no one relies on you: what would you do? What would make you forget about time? That tends to cut through a lot of noise.

  • Identity questions sit quietly for years, then become loud. It helps to have somewhere to take them.
  • The question: if no one is watching and no one depends on you, what would you do? What makes you forget about time?
Self-esteem LGBTQ+ identity Goal setting Procrastination Cultural identity

Relational & Behavioural Patterns

Most communication problems are not actually about words. They're about what's underneath the words: what's assumed, what's avoided, what one person hears when the other speaks.

Saying "you forgot the trash" might actually be saying "I feel invisible and unsupported." The argument is about the trash. The relationship problem is something else entirely. Understanding that layer changes what's possible.

  • Most communication problems aren't about the words. They're about what's assumed and avoided underneath them.
  • "You forgot the trash" might mean "I feel invisible." The argument is about the trash. The relationship problem isn't.
Communication patterns Codependency Boundaries Emotional intelligence

Cognitive & Neurodevelopmental

ADHD is a difference in how the brain regulates attention, emotion, and impulse, not a character flaw. Understanding that distinction changes what it means to work with it. Especially when the diagnosis arrives late, after years of evidence that you were somehow just not trying hard enough.

This work also includes thought patterns that create friction: perfectionism, rumination, catastrophising, and the somatic dimension of how anxiety and mood live in the body, not just the mind.

  • ADHD is not a character flaw. It's a difference in how the brain regulates attention, emotion, and impulse.
  • Also covers thought patterns that create friction: perfectionism, rumination, catastrophising, and anxiety that lives in the body.
ADHD Executive functioning Thought patterns Somatic awareness
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Fees & Format

What to know before booking

Session fees

$150 / 50 min

Extended sessions (80 min) available at $200.

Many extended health insurance and benefits plans cover Registered Psychotherapist services. Check with your provider directly. Coverage varies.

Sliding scale: A limited number of sliding scale spots are available.

Free first call

20 minutes, no cost. A chance to ask questions, get a sense of how I work, and figure out whether individual psychotherapy is the right fit right now.

Sessions are online via Jane App, available across Ontario.

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